How Can Men Stay Fit, Focused, and Feeling Good at Any Age?

Talking about Men Health

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Men often wait until something feels wrong to visit the doctor—but by then, chronic issues may already be underway. Establishing strong health habits early and maintaining them throughout life can prevent many of the leading causes of death and disability for men. Yet, men live nearly six years less than women on average. This gap has widened to its largest margin in nearly 30 years. 

What can change this story? Simple habits like regular checkups, physical activity, stress management, and social connection. These aren’t just feel-good practices — they’re backed by research. A Harvard study of Adult Development found that strong social connections are one of the biggest predictors of long-term happiness and health. On the physical side, 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week can reduce the risk of heart disease and improve mental health.

Quitting or never starting smoking and vaping can also vastly improve short -and long-term health. Even occasional tobacco use can take a toll on physical and mental wellness. If you smoke, now is the time to quit—and if you don’t, don’t start. Trillium is dedicated to keeping our communities as healthy as possible through our Tobacco Cessation Plan.   Individuals can get help through Trillium’s partnership with Quit For Life, which provides personalized coaching, medication support, and tools to break the habit for good.

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Mental health also deserves attention. Men are less likely to seek help for depression or anxiety. They are also four times more likely to die by suicide than women. Building resilience, finding support, and talking openly about mental wellness can be life-saving.

You don’t need to overhaul everything at once — health is a lifelong journey. But the earlier and more consistently you invest in yourself, the more you stand to gain. Here’s how to start at each stage of adulthood.

Laying the foundation in your 20s and 30s

Your 20s and 30s are filled with big transitions — jobs, relationships, maybe even fatherhood. While you are building your future, don’t forget to build your health foundation too. Whether it is your first appointment or annual check-up, these three powerful questions lay the groundwork for lifelong health. 

  1. What screenings or tests should I get at my age?
    Routine checks like blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood glucose can catch early signs of heart disease or diabetes. Conditions can start in early adulthood without obvious symptoms. Routine screenings can help you troubleshoot issues before they become a problem. If you don’t have a primary care physician, start seeing one now to build a relationship. 
  2. Are there any lifestyle changes I should be making now to prevent future problems?
    Decisions you make today, like food, physical activity, sleep, and stress, all impact the future version of you. Talk to your doctor about your health factors, like family history and health behaviors. Even if your family doesn't openly share health concerns, or your family structure looks different from the traditional mold, it’s still worth asking questions and being as aware as possible. They can help you build good habits and improve areas of concern, so your self-investment pays off. 
  3. What vaccinations or boosters do I need to stay protected?
    Vaccines can keep you feeling your best. HPV (recommended up to age 26), tetanus boosters, flu shots, and COVID-19 vaccines/boosters protect you and others. That means more time for being with friends and family, working out, travelling, and doing what matters most to you! 

Building up your health in your 40s and 50s

Let’s be honest — we often don’t rush to the doctor unless something is wrong. Your 40s and 50s are a turning point: asking the right questions now can help you feel your best and add years to your life. A good relationship with your doctor and acting on your health can keep you moving and enjoying life. 

  1. What screenings or tests should I do and how often?
    In midlife, preventive screenings become more essential. Your doctor can help tailor recommendations based on your personal and family health history. Ask about:
    • Colorectal cancer screening (usually starts at age 45)
    • Prostate exam or PSA test
    • Cholesterol, blood pressure, and blood sugar levels
    • Vision and hearing tests, which may decline subtly over time
      These tests catch issues early — often before you notice any symptoms.
  2.  How do I know if low testosterone is affecting me?
    Testosterone levels naturally decline with age. If you're noticing low energy, reduced muscle mass, lower sex drive, irritability or trouble sleeping, it may be worth a conversation. Treatment options are available. These symptoms could also be sign of something else, like thyroid issues, depression or sleep apnea. 
  3. What can I do right now to lower my risk for heart disease, diabetes and erectile dysfunction (ED)?
    The same habits that keep your heart and blood sugar healthy also help prevent ED. ED can be an early warning sign of vascular problems. Your doctor can assess your heart risk and decide if early interventions like medications are needed. They can also help you make smart tweaks to your diet, fitness, and alcohol use. It’s also a good time to talk openly with your provider about any sexual health concerns.

Maintaining your health in your 60s and beyond

You’ve made it to your golden years. This stage of life is all about maintaining quality of life. With the right steps and guidance, your health habits can help you stay strong, sharp, and connected. Save these questions for your next visit: 

  1. How can I stay independent and active for as long as possible?
    Aging well depends on maintaining strength, balance and mental sharpness. Your doctor can give you the tools to support those three areas. Discussions of fall risk can help protect continued mobility. Your doctor can also help with muscle mass, bone health, cognitive health, and hearing and vision.  
  2.  What vaccines and screenings do I need and what can I stop doing?
    As you get older, some screenings may stop as others become more important. Your doctor can give guidance on the frequency of colonoscopies and prostate and lung cancer screenings. They can also keep you up to date on your shingles, pneumonia, flu, COVID and RSV vaccines. 
  3. How do I manage my chronic conditions without overmedicating?
    By your 60s, most men are dealing with one or more chronic conditions. Things like high blood pressure, diabetes, arthritis or heart disease may be in the mix. A discussion of your treatment plan and the side effects, interactions, and questions around medications can ensure your plan is working for you. Your doctor can help you review your medications and be on the lookout for potential side effects.  

Trillium is ready with the tools to help you live a long, healthy, and happy life! Check out these free resources on My Learning Campus, your one-stop shop for better health and wellness.

Healthy Eating
Know the benefits and guidelines of healthy eating. This course helps you get started and gives tips for adding healthy eating habits to your daily routine.

Asking the Right Questions About Your Health
Gain the tools to confidently and effectively discuss your health with your healthcare providers. 

Encouraging Physical Activity
Learn how small steps and routine can make big changes with more physical exercise in your life.

Smoking Cessation
Identify the health benefits of quitting smoking, effective treatments for smokers who want to quit and information about Quitline services.

Managing Stress by Building Resilience
What is resilience, and why does it matter in managing our stress levels? Learn how we can build it in ourselves, as well as others, to weather any of life’s storms. 


Remember, a healthy life is a journey, not a destination. Start slow with small changes that you can then build upon. Small changes can build habits that stick.

Additional Men’s Health Resources

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The leading cause of death for men in the United States is heart disease. The CDC’s Million Hearts campaign seeks to prevent one million heart attacks and strokes by 2027. The American Heart Association also promotes Healthy Living through eating smart, moving more and being well. 

Cancer is the second leading cause of death for men in the United States. Prostate, colon and lung cancer are the most prevalent cancers for men. The American Cancer Society can help with prevention, screening and other vital information. 

Men’s Health Network is dedicated to supporting men live long, healthy lives. They provide guides and resources for physical, mental and sexual health. They also can help you thrive in every aspect of life with tips on healthy living.